Post Abortion Syndrome Forums

February 22, 2012, 10:00 pm

Well Jen C after spending a truly nauseating evening reading your friend of a friends own words, written on a public forum after a gag order was in place, I'm going to dare... I've never read such vile and hateful things written about parents before. Her missives span over two and a half years and...

February 22, 2012, 10:18 pm

sorry, i don't know how old he is now. I think he might be around 12 now

February 22, 2012, 10:37 pm

Quote: Originally Posted by UTbrie Yep, it frustrates me to all get out as well. The more you advocate for your child, the more you are seen as one of "those" foster parents with ulterior motives. (such as wanting to adopt the child or sabotaging RU efforts) But in...

February 22, 2012, 10:37 pm

I'm sitting here thinking, 'she's never read some of my posts about this.' We never dealt with infertility; but I get VERY tired of reading comments when people state they're still re-living that 'non-fertile status'......and they have a gorgeous baby in their arms...through adoption. It's then...

February 22, 2012, 10:35 pm

First off I wanted to send (((Hugs))). Getting a diagnosis can be both a relief and incite a feeling of terror. My oldest was diagnosed with Asperger's at the age of 13. Quite late in the game but that was back when they first started looking at Autism as a spectrum disorder instead of a hard...

February 22, 2012, 10:33 pm

First, to me, the 30-60 minutes late, consistently, does need to be reported directly to his supervisor/ the owner of the business he works for. They provide a service under contract, they need to know if one of their employees is that consistently off the mark. Second, they need to be told if...

February 22, 2012, 10:30 pm

Quote: The formula companies swear they are the same, but they are not the same for some kids as we discovered. 0--eagleswings216 AMEN, to that one! I can't stress that enough......the formulas are NOT the same when discussing liquid RTF vs the powdered type. After...

February 22, 2012, 10:24 pm

Congrats on being matched!!! thats awesome!!! As far as the liquid coming out... i never had Brownish milk, but everyone is different. but absolutely save EVERY DROP that comes out. When i started i pumped like 6-8 times a day and id get like 2 drops at every pumping and i just added them to the...

February 22, 2012, 10:18 pm

Quote: Originally Posted by BoysParent If the case goes to TPR, they will likely do a paternity test before the trial. Keep your fingers crossed that the MIA guy is in fact the biofather. With biomom willing to sign baby over to you and him being MIA with no interested...

February 22, 2012, 10:18 pm

Not the person you're asking, but... children's needs and personalities differ greatly, and families' personalities, habits, and lifestyles differ greatly. Families are not always a good fit for every child, and vice versa. For a very hyper child, a family that loves to bike, hike, camp, garden,...

February 22, 2012, 10:05 pm

Melatonin is NOT the answer for night terrors because too high a dose can CREATE problems, not eleviate them. There is NO KNOWN "cure" for night terrors. It SUCKS!!! It's hard But remind yourself they don't remember them and a good friend with a Psychology PHD assures me they usually...

February 22, 2012, 9:50 pm

We mailed ours on Jan. 17, it was signed for on Jan. 20. We didn't show up on WMR for almost 4 weeks. We finally showed up about a week and a half ago with a "by March 20" date. Then, this past Sunday it updated and said "by February 28". I'm praying we get another update...

February 22, 2012, 9:41 pm

You all kind of have the answer I was expecting. What is interesting is the CW told me completely different, she said of course she would have a say and that her opinion would be completely considered. @Crazy_Woman: I have never heard her say it to her parents (who is my sister) I think she has a...

February 22, 2012, 9:25 pm

well, what Ive realized is that this whole thing will be left to us except the legal paperwork...not much guidance. Fortunately, you all were right! We talked about things and I feel so much more relaxed and honestly it seems like she is too. Im just so happy that communication is coming more...

February 22, 2012, 9:15 pm

Quote: Originally Posted by Doggymom He is special smart etc. he doesn't need to be fixed do you think he gets that? This just may be it! I need to find a way to convince him that hes OK more pills wont help anything. Maybe its silly but I worry that continually...